Colombian Personality Traits

Growing up in Colombia builds in personality traits and habits that are learned since childhood. I have noticed this recently just by observing parents with their children. If you do so, there is an obvious difference in how Americans and Colombians are raised. As a result, this child rearing causes Colombians to have similar personality traits.

Nice stereotypical image to talk about stereotypes.

Besides the cultural stereotypes of partying, happy, people; here are some not as obvious traits:

1. Very Clean:

Colombians are very clean. For example, they take at least 1 if not more showers per day. A lot of people brush their teeth after lunch and have spotless apartments. In contrast, anyone that is familiar with American or European culture can agree that other countries are not as clean when it comes to showers and apartments. Just look at American college dorm rooms -- they are always gross.

I think this could be because of the fact that a lot of people are raised with maids and just get into the habit of having everything clean. Also, because Colombians care a lot about outer appearance and so it is another way to look good in front of others. Also, while observing a mother and child, I noticed that the child was not allowed to play in the dirt while in America it is ok for gets to get dirty. As some may know the American expression, “God made dirt, dirt can’t hurt”.

2. Good at Negotiating & Business:

This definitely applies to Paisas, but in general Colombians are good at negotiating and at business. Whether it is negotiating with street vendors or starting a new business, Colombians have an entrepreneurial spirit that has lead to a lot of growth in the country. I think this may be about the level of poverty as they are willing to do anything to make money and becomes a habit over time when learning these skills form other Colombians. Also, may be because there is no government social support for the unemployed, meaning that learning how to hustles is a live skill that can help in times of need.

3. Polite, Yet Fake:

I have seen a lot of articles about Colombia saying that Colombians are extremely polite and happy people. It may appear like that to a foreigner who is here for a short time, but if you really live here, you notice that the politeness can be a facade. It is a facade because while that may be polite to your face, they also are known for talking behind peoples back and being fake.

This happens especially in the work environment where you get along with everyone, but then later realize that there have been people making complaints about you. Be careful, because in the workplace people often are very competitive and will try to get you fired or take your job -- probably for the same reason as #2.